Tour of My Existence

“John Doe” (clearly, not a real name) is now single.
Last week, a friend of mine changed his relationship status, in Facebook.
People who cares about him, asked lots of questions.

Silence. No answer.
We couldn’t get any response.
The questions were never answered.

To tell the truth, I was shocked.

A break up always a heartbreaker. [source]

I was just met him and his girlfriend a few weeks ago, on the first week of Raya.
When we were still in the anxiety mood of Syawal.
I saw they were very happy. Silly jokes here and there.
They were no sign of quarrelling.
They were no sign of unhappiness.
They were no sign of intense relationship.
They were no sign of anything towards a break up.
But suddenly, they broke up, that’s what I thought, since he changed his relationship status.
From “in a relationship” changed to “single”.
Even Syawal is not over yet. But their relationship is now over.



Well, that is how relationship goes.
You are happy at first, but suddenly, everything goes bad, where it all ends with sadness and frustration.
You are fills with anxiety, but when it drops down, you are left with disappointment.
Everything was perfect, but as long as the relationship goes, you found weaknesses.
Everything runs smoothly, but as long as the relationship goes, they were bumpy road here and there, and you need to pass through it, by any means necessary.
Well, I’m not the one to talk about this, but you know how it goes. You get the idea, right?

It's heartbreaking when you know that you are not needed. [source]

Back to the case, about my friend.
Personally, I think, that was a rush decision.
Why did they break up?
What was the reason? What happened, actually?
This is just “our” speculation, when I meant “our”, it means those who knows and cares about him and his girlfriend.
Most of us think that they broke up because they fight.
Well, most of couples fight all the time.
But that doesn’t means that they need to break up.
If there was no fight at all, that means that they are not normal.
Haa…easy for me to say.
But it’s true, isn’t it?

I looked through into their Facebook profiles. I found out that both of them were trying to avoid the subject. They went silence, maybe still grieving about the past. But they were sign that they were hurt. Making that harsh decision they made. I still believe, they were still a light of hope for them to be together for the rest of their life. Truthfully, I really hope that they go back together. Because they look great together. So, I wish that they could go back together. But whatever decisions that they will take, I hope both of them happy and move forward without ever looking back.