Satisfaction is Never Enough

Today, my friends and I went to a friend's wedding.
How wonderful there are.
Dressed up as king and queen.
All eyes was looking and every lips was talking. About them.
They looked so beautiful. They looked so good together.

And today, is the day, they starts their lives together.
Living as husband and wife. Take care of each other.
Face the challenges together. Work through the hardships together.
And not too mention, they starts to "see" each other, everyday and everywhere.

Marriage is sacred. So, don't take it lightly. [source]

So, why did I mention about this?
Of course, living as married couple, they lives together. In the same house.
And of course, they'll see each other everyday and every seconds.
At dinner table. On the bed. In the kitchen. Everywhere. Maybe at work too.
But then, on my trip back home, a friend of mine told us a story.
A story about his friend, whose married and about to have a child.
Who said that he got fed up of seeing his wife.

Then, I said, "What???" Then, my mind started to think.
He should be grateful. And he should be thankful.
That he got married, The fact that he's going to be a father.
In this world, there were many more people who are unfortunate.
Who don't get a chance to have a baby. Who don't have anyone to love.
And those who don't get the courage, the chance to say "I Love You".
If only he knows, perhaps, he wouldn't said such a thing.
But then, he said, he got fed up of seeing her. What!!!

However, let's just face the truth.
Human can't get enough satisfaction.
When we reach a comfortable zone, we tends to seek for more.
We always want more. That's just human nature.
We seek for opportunity, and when its open, we use it.
We'll try to find another comfort zone. And then, we make lame excuses.
In the end, it all ends up in divorce. It ends up with break ups.
If you're happy. That should be enough right?

And this kind of thing. It will happen all over again.
Its going to happen again. Believe me. An ending is just another beginning to a failure.
If it already happened, how could you make sure that it won't happen ever again?

Well, the answer is simple. It will happens. Over and over. However, there is still solution. We just need to stop. We just need to find our final destination. We just need to look out and seek for a settlement. When we find it, we need to embrace it dear to our heart. And never let it go. If we could do that, I believe we'll find the true satisfaction. The true happiness. The true purpose. In Life.

syaftome ~  on the search for true happiness

14 de' tour comments:

hani apandi said...

tadi kejiranan kmk ada juak kenduri kawen, macam2 komen kmk dengar..ssh nya nak puaskan hati org kan..apatah gik hati sendiri..hahaha..maka ktk cita hal dri yg sik puas hati..kmk melelat ke hati org indah..urm, mek sik mauk kawen awal.seba lum puas hidup bujang...hahahahha..:DD

syaftome said...

hahaha...nak puaskan hati sendiri pun susah...
apatah lg mok puaskan hati org lain...
sama jak ya...its the same thing..hehe..

hmmm~kawen awal...ada bait n buruk nya...

Ninie Nordin said...

aok eh. ati dk mpun susah mok puas. dah ada nok sempurna pun mok nak lebih sempurna gk. ya tanda nya sik bsyukur. kan? n kmk cuba mok puaskan ati wlaupun mala jak sik puas ati. aihhh.

psstt. hope ktk kan temu kebahagiaan yg sebenar2nya. yerrr. (:

syaftome said...

hmmm...bersyukur...
if only all people in the world do that...

thanks for the wish...
i really hope so...
to find it...
in the near future...

Vivian said...

nang susah..senangkan diri sndirik jak...

married life senang mun tolerate..pandey jg diri..penampilan dan habit..masa dh kawen la kta tga habit sik bgs / bgs laki or bini mpun yg slama tok kita sik tga or sik sangka.. hihi

syaftome said...

hahaha...
bla dah kawen kelak...
baruk tauk perangai sebenar...

mena jwak kata kawan kmk...
b'cinta lepas kawen...
ada bagusnya...

hani apandi said...

haha.mek sik tauk apa baeknya kawen awal.buruk banyakla mek tanga..kawen awal memang la best bagi certain orang, tapi pernah sik sidak pike.hati mak bapak yang lum puas hati nanga kta tok membesar, membujang, mendara & berjaya~..hehe

syaftome said...

hahaha...
kawen awal...hindari fitnah...
n cepat dpt anak...
buat apa nak lmbt2...
mun niatnya bagus...hehe...

hani apandi said...

yup,
bena juak ya,
menghindarkan segala dosa

tapi mun mek madah ngan bapak mak mek nak kawen, nang tauk ketidak puasan hati bapak la..akan suruh kmk berhenti study jak.haha..nya salu remind, belajar dolok.:)


mek tggu ktk kawen jak, jgn sik jemput! :D

syaftome said...

ada bena jwak pa dpadah bapak ktk ya...
education pun penting jwak...
apa2 jd kelak...
ktk bleh sara dirik pun...
dengan pendidikan yg ktk ada...

kmk tunggu ktk dolok...
gik carik calon tok...hahaha...

hani apandi said...

hahaha
kotan sorang nungu sorang,
ujung2 tua kita tok lak,
sikdahal, gik panjang perjalanan tok,

slow2, :)

syaftome said...

hahaha...
mena jwak owh...
tp yg pasti...
kmk rasa mesti ktk dolok...haha...

hani apandi said...

haha
kmk gik biak aie, 20 baru
so ktk la lok o0..

apapun, bila2 kmk kawen.anda akan dijemput, sudi2 lah dtg :)

yerr..awal ada jemput lok..;p

syaftome said...

hahaha...insya'allah...
serian tek nak...
no problem...hehehe...

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