| I don't want to be on that guy position. [source] |
Perfection.
No one is perfect. No one is flawless. No one.
Because God made us that way. We are made that way.
So that, we have rooms for improvement.
So that, we have spaces for developments.
And life. It's full of suprises.
Readings and learning are just some channels but experiences are the best teachers.
Through this step, we learn a thing or two about life.That eventually, develops different perspective on the journey of life. So, its up to us to decide what's best for us. That's why it's up to us to keep on moving forward. To find the right path. To follow the right track. Until that happens, all we need to do is to keep on searching. Seeking for the true meaning of life.
Now, let's talk about weaknesses.
Everyone has their own weakness.
Everyone has an open window. Even myself.
But, that doesn't mean that we can't improve.
There are always rooms for self-development.
However, some people prefers to point their fingers to others.
Some people prefers to critic others than to look at their own weak spots.
This is the type of people I despise the most. They are just too absorbed to the fact that people make mistakes. But they forgot to look back to their own mistakes. These people loves to critic others, but they forgot to mention that they does the same mistakes.
I mean, I just don't believe these people. They know how to give advise to others, but they forgot to reflect on themselves. Self-critics. They just ignored the fact that they did the same thing to themselves.
In work, before you gives advices people to come early, aren't you suppose to come early too?
Before you ask others to give their best, aren't you suppose to be their model?
Before you tell others to save money, aren't you supposed to have savings account?
Before you tell others to make decisions carefully, aren't you supposed to do the same?
| The best medicine to anger and criticism. [source] |
Well, my point here is that don't you think that people should look into their own weaknesses, their own imperfections before they tried to give advices to others. I know, everyone isn't perfect. But that doesn't hinders you from giving others some advices. As long as it appropriates. As long as it convenient. In the process, we could learn something new together. We could learn on how to improve together.
But for some. They think that they are just so perfect, so powerful, that makes it right for them to critics others. To judge people who are not in their league. Who are not up to their level. They just see the worst in people. They thinks these people are just their punching bag. A place where they could cover their mistakes. Because believe it or not, criticism is just a channel for these people to cover their own mistakes. To seal away their own weakness. To cover their own susceptibleness.
syaftome ~ emotionally unstable
11 de' tour comments:
from the 1st para.
it give the answer.
nobody is perfect because Allah made us in that way.
so the point here everyone need each other to keep with us so that we are on the right path. means i advice u when i'm wrong and vice versa. we didnt know our weakness except somebody tell us.
and one thing kept on our mind.
when someone kept on pointing finger on us, remember here only one finger goes to us but the other 4 goes to him/her back.
hope u get wat i mean.
masa zaman sekolah, kmk jenis yang cepat touching bila dkritik..tapi bila smakin dewasa..agakla dewasa & matang kit, kmk bleh trima kritikan orang seadanya..so, kmk tauk sine kekurangan kmk..tp sumtime, mek menyampah dgan org yg pandei kritik org tp drinya sikla sesempurna ne pun..pasya, sikpat trima bila org kritik sidak balik..huh, payah..hee
kekurangan kta akan di isi oleh org lain..gia juak kekurangan orang lain..ktk yg tlg isi utk cdak. tapi ada juak jenis yg sik sedar dirik ya..
mizi: i know what u mean...
but that's the thing...
people just know how to critic others...
instead of giving advices...
hani: kita memang kenak pandei terima kritikan...supaya kita dpt memajukan diri...tp sstengah org tok...tauk nak kondem org jak...
bsi: i guess so, we completes each other...n memang benar...bnyk org yg sik sedar dirik..
Constructive criticism i dont mind, if given in a proper manner, or when asked for. Tapi yang tak pasal2 kritik orang macam dia baik sangat tu, ah siboh layan jak. itu bukan critik namanya, itu judgmental dan condemning. banyak la orang macam tu.
kmk lh spesis sik pat trimak kritikan org. cpat kecik ati. tp dlm masa yg sma kmk nilit2 lah apa kekurangan kmk smpe da org mok kritik. yarh.
kmk pnh jumpa org tauk nya nak kritik org jak kejaaaa. mentang2 org besar. slh dk mpun sik d tauk nya. ngennng.
CG; nang bnyk org kedak ya...tauk nak condem jak...x tau nak ngubah drkpun...
ninie:bgslah mun ktk pandei muhasabah diri...tp x semua org ada molah kedak ya...yang tauk cdak...ngembak mulut laser...:P
yeap
no one is perfect, not me not you
as long we know we hv try all we can, if others still want to critic..just go ahead coz we can't pleased ev1 =)
well said...
as long as we realize we r not perfect...
that shud be good enuff...
nak suka kondem org yala mek sik berapa nak suka, angol mek entam orang gia..
mek belajar trima kritikan orang, mek dengar, tapi mek tanga upa org kritik mek ya lok.mun nya pun sik berapa nak cun, pekakkan tlinga mek.haha
bagi kmk, pengkritik paling baek, jujur & ikhlas adalah ibu bapa saya! mun kritik ya, nang tauk bena .hehe
hmmm...baguslah mun camya...
yg penting...kita sedar...
apa salah dan kurangnya pd diri kita...
muhasabah diri pun penting jwak...
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