Tour of My Existence

Today, I read about a rape case.
Which is very common nowadays.
Unless we do something about it.
Unless we make some changes. In lifestyle.
It will unnecessarily become a bad culture.
A negative impact to the community.

So, let's get back to the point.
The rapist, a guy who is a "few" years older than her.
Met her couple of times, and then raped her, in a hotel.
Then, of course, she reported to the police.
Which I'm pretty sure, her family did this.
Where, at the end of the story,
the guy was caught and put into jail.

How does it feel to be handcuff? I don't want to find out. For sure. [source]

Pretty typical of a rape case, right?
But, first, before you jumped into any conclusion,
Let's hear about this.
How did they meet?
They met through a social page in a magazine.
Where they put their pictures and phone numbers.
I'm sure you guys familiar with this kind of thing.
So, at last they contacted each other.
Through phone calls and messages.

Usually, in this type of case, the guy will always put to blame.
Of course, because he raped the girl.
But, have we seen this case in another point of view.
Another perspective. The reason why he raped the girl, in the first place?
Most people? I don't think so.

Every picture has may perspectives if we look them carefully. [source]

Why? Let's "listen" to what I'm going to say.
After a week, the girl sends an mms, a photo of herself, naked.
Then, they both went out. Dating, of course.
On the fourth meeting, the guy asked the girl to meet him at a hotel.
Then, the girl said OK, of course.
And then what happened, she was raped.
By a couple of guys too, I believed. According to the news.

So, you see here. If only she did differently, this won't happen.
If only she didn't send naked photos of herself, this won't happen.
If only she didn't meet a stranger in private, this won't happen.
If only she didn't accept the invitation, this won't happen.

However, those are just "if only" situations.
But, the thing is, it already happened.
And nothing we could do, to help this girl. And the guy.
Except to give them guidance to avoid it from ever happened again.

Things would be much more easier with a helping hand. Believe it. [source]

So, all I'm saying. We don't have to point fingers to just one side of the party.
Without careful investigation, the information we read might lead to wrong direction.
So, look carefully, because there are much more story to uncover.
And when the cat is out of the bag, we'll know more. For sure.
We'll know that the guy is not the only person responsible.
The girl also plays her role, which lead this thing to happen.
And through deeper exploration, we'll find out.
That family supports also a variable in the formula.
Because without a proper support, the pillars of a family will be broken.
And when something goes wrong, there will be no one to be blame.
Other than themselves.